Comments on: Adventures in girl-dating, or: The Search for BFF Forevers. http://probablytabitha.com/2009/05/31/adventures-in-girl-dating/ The blog of a girl who's headed in the right direction...probably. Thu, 26 Apr 2012 02:43:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Megan http://probablytabitha.com/2009/05/31/adventures-in-girl-dating/#comment-435 Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:05:10 +0000 http://tabithablogs.wordpress.com/?p=172#comment-435 hahaha this is awesome and prob one of my favorite blogs you’ve done. because it’s so true!! lol. wish i was up there with you :) definitely there in spirit!!!

]]> By: LiLu http://probablytabitha.com/2009/05/31/adventures-in-girl-dating/#comment-404 Tue, 02 Jun 2009 02:25:31 +0000 http://tabithablogs.wordpress.com/?p=172#comment-404 Haha congrats! I totally hear you- girlfriends make ALL the difference. Not just for you, but for him too- then they don’t have to hear us talk about *quite* so much girl stuff… :-)

]]> By: Cee http://probablytabitha.com/2009/05/31/adventures-in-girl-dating/#comment-403 Mon, 01 Jun 2009 16:49:40 +0000 http://tabithablogs.wordpress.com/?p=172#comment-403 Definitely been there! It’s good when it works out and everyone clicks.

It’s SOOOOOOO awkward when you’re just not feeling it.

Making friends as an adult is sooooooo much harder than it was when we were all kids. Especially out of college.

I’m in this weird phase where the friends I have that are my age are almost all married & have babies (whereas I’m single with a dog) and my friends younger than me are still WAY too wild.

It’s sooooooo frustrating!

I just want some friends who can go out sometimes or even just hang out and aren’t all hung up on getting WASTED!

It’s hard to have grown up time w/ the friends that have kids.

]]> By: cari http://probablytabitha.com/2009/05/31/adventures-in-girl-dating/#comment-402 Mon, 01 Jun 2009 16:04:47 +0000 http://tabithablogs.wordpress.com/?p=172#comment-402 i hear you on that one!! i’ve been going out on girl dates recently. and one is definitely panning out. and one… i’m not really sure. the funny part? i thought it would be the other way around. they’re both super sweet girls, but one i can talk to more easily and whatnot. i’ll give it a try for, oh say, the rest of the summer before i possibly move to california. because i need new friends. all of my old friends have moved on with their lives. which requires them moving away from here. i mean… really. yeah.

girl dates are definitely WAY scarier than boy dates. because, face it, girls are scarier than boys.

]]> By: Holly http://probablytabitha.com/2009/05/31/adventures-in-girl-dating/#comment-401 Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:53:09 +0000 http://tabithablogs.wordpress.com/?p=172#comment-401 I have a friend who does this — she jokes about going to yoga and book readings at the library to find other Moms to “date” so she has friends to hang out with.

]]> By: laylou http://probablytabitha.com/2009/05/31/adventures-in-girl-dating/#comment-400 Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:38:35 +0000 http://tabithablogs.wordpress.com/?p=172#comment-400 OMG. I have gone through this! I met one of my fellow blog friends earlier this year and my boyfriend was laughing at me because I was nervous about what to wear, nervous about if she would like me and etc. She did like me and we are becoming really close!

I also went through a similar thing over a year ago in grad school. I was “class friends,” with a girl in one of my classes so we could exchange notes, talk about class and etc and then one night I suggested we grab Mexican. We bonded over everything that night, thanks to the margaritas, and we’ve been BFFs since!

I know exactly what you mean about this though. It can be totally scary and nerve-wracking =)

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